

TABLE OF CONTENTS
INTRODUCTION
PHASE ONE THE BASICS
Chapter One: The Biology of Sex
I: Our Changing Bodies
II: What's Sex?
Chapter Two: Most Sex Had Nothing To Do With Making Babies
I: Why We’re Sexual With Someone Else
II: How It’s Relevant to Us
PHASE TWO GETTING TO KNOW US
Chapter Three: There’s A Whole Lot Of Not Feeling Good Going On
Chapter Four: There Are Some Pretty Strong Ideas About Who We Should Be
I: Ideas of Who We Should Be If We’re a Girl
II: Ideas of Who We Should Be If We’re a Boy
Chapter Five: Are Our ideas Helpful?
I: For Girls
II: For Boys
Chapter Six: Our Changing Bodies, Sexual Energy & Sex
I: What’s the Deal With Sex?
II: What’s the Deal With Sexual Energy?
Chapter Seven: What We Have, What We Wear, What We Look Like, Where We Come From…And What We
Think It All Says About Others & Us
PHASE THREE THE NARRATIVE
Chapter Eight: Identifying & Unraveling the Stories
Chapter Nine: The Us Underneath
Chapter Ten: What Keeps Us Hooked In
PHASE FOUR WHAT WE CAN DO
Chapter Eleven: Getting to Know What’s Not Us
I: The Roles We Play
II: Roles & What We Can Do
III: Our Thoughts & Feelings
IV: Thoughts & Feelings & What We Can Do
Chapter Twelve: Getting to Like Ourselves and Our Bodies
Chapter Thirteen: What We Should Know About Sexual Energy
PHASE FIVE GETTING TO KNOW SOMEONE ELSE
Chapter Fourteen: Being In Relationship
Chapter Fifteen: Being Sexual
Chapter Sixteen: The Practical Logistics
PHASE SIX INTO THE NEW
Notes, Glossary, Resources
EXCERPTS FROM ALL MANNER OF THINGS: perspectives for young people on Sex, Self, Relationship, & Life